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Understanding Love Languages

 💛 Understanding Love Languages


Love languages describe the different ways people give and receive love.

Knowing your love language — and the love languages of the people you care about — can make relationships feel clearer, closer, and more connected.


Love languages aren’t rules.

They’re clues to help us understand what makes someone feel valued, safe, and cared for.


There are five main love languages:


Words of Affirmation

Words of Affirmation

Words of Affirmation

How this person feels loved:
Hearing kind, caring, encouraging words.

Examples:

“I’m proud of you.”

“I love the way you handled that.”

“I appreciate you.”

Words build connection and safety for this person.🌟 


How this person 


Hearing kind, caring, 

Quality time

Words of Affirmation

Words of Affirmation

How this person feels loved:

Being fully present together — undistracted time and attention.


Examples:


Having a cuppa and chatting


Going for a walk


Doing an activity together


Checking in at the end of the day


Time = connection for this person.

Receiving Gifts

Words of Affirmation

Receiving Gifts

How this person feels loved:

Thoughtful gestures — not expensive gifts, but meaningful ones.


Examples:


A favourite snack


A handwritten note


A flower picked from the garden


A little “I saw this and thought of you” moment

Acts of service

Acts of service

Receiving Gifts

How this person feels loved:

Actions that make life easier or show support.


Examples:


Helping with chores


Making a meal


Running an errand


Taking something off their plate


Love feels like support in action.

Physical Touch

Acts of service

Physical Touch

How this person feels loved:

Safe, appropriate physical connection.


Examples:


Hugs


Holding hands


A pat on the back


Sitting close


A gentle touch on the arm



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